MARIELENA ZUNIGA: ON LURKERS

2009 September 14
by Marielena Zuniga

Marielena's new head shot informalWord of the week: Lurkers. If you’re reading this blog, chances are good you’re a lurker. For those of you who do not know what a lurker is, rest assured it’s not some sort of Internet perversion. A lurker is simply someone who reads discussions on a blog, or chat room or forum, but rarely participates by contributing their comments.

I understand. Before we started our Birth of a Novel blog, I, too, was a lurker. Honestly, I had difficulty finding time to read blogs, much less post comments. Now that we have our own blog, I’ve been pondering this concept of lurking. It’s not all bad. In fact, I believe that as a writers we ARE lurkers.

Although the word can have a sinister meaning, at its essence it means “to exist unobserved or unsuspected.” As writers, that’s what we do. We stand quietly by, observing life. We watch people. We listen to conversations and pick up snippets of dialogue. We soak in stories, from people we know and from other sources — newspaper clippings, television, history books.

My point? Writing requires a good amount of lurking. But writing requires something more. And that’s where the writing and lurking paths part. Lurkers will read a blog, take what they need, and move on. Writers feel compelled to take what they’ve observed and mold it into words. We feel we must comment on the larger blog of life.

So, if you’re reading this as a lurker, feel free to lurk away.  If you decide to comment, even better.  Either way, we hope our blog is giving you something you need – as a writer or in your personal life.  We’re here every week.  And we’re happy you stopped by.

8 Responses leave one →
  1. 2009 September 18

    One could assume there would be no comments on a post on lurking which then would be participating and not lurking. Hmm a point to ponder. Interesting site, thanks go to Sandy Cody who pointed me in this direction.

  2. 2009 September 18
    Marielena permalink

    Thanks for your thought-provoking reply, William, and for “not” lurking but commenting. You make a good point. My central message, however, was an analogy and a wee bit of a stretch, that we as writers are “lurkers,” observing life and then commenting on it. Thanks again, and to Sandy for pointing you in our direction. And as I invited in my post, please feel free to “lurk” about our blog, or to comment any time!

  3. 2009 September 19

    I agree. I often read to inspire my writing. The best place for me to get a new idea, especially for a blog is in reading other’s. In which case my comments wind up in the form of a new blog post. Does that still make me a lurker?

  4. 2009 September 19
    Marielena permalink

    Joanne, Thanks for taking the time to lurk around our blog. Hopefully it inspired you in your own blogging. Perhaps we need to invent a new word for someone who both lurks and blogs — a “blurker”?

  5. 2009 September 20

    Lurking is such an interesting part of blogging. I lurk at some blogs, and I know I have plenty of lurkers at mine as well.

  6. 2009 September 20
    Marielena permalink

    Thanks for stopping by to “lurk” and “post” your comments, MeganRebekah. I just reciprocated on your blog, by doing both. Although I didn’t spend as much time “lurking” on your blog as I’d like, I plan to go back. You sound like an interesting person, which always makes for an interesting writer! Thanks again … and feel free to stop by our blog any time.

  7. 2009 September 25

    Lovely blog you have here.

    I do a mix of lurking and commenting these days. For me, it comes down to whether or not I have something to say and/or how comfortable I am with the blog. No idea why, but I don’t feel comfortable commenting on some blogs, even if I read them every day.

    • 2009 September 25
      Marielena permalink

      Casey,
      I’m thrilled that you felt comfortable enough with our blog to comment! Please feel free to lurk or comment at any time. You are always most welcome.

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